Tuesday, 5 October 2010

nice and sweet

If I meet someone (apart from my usual friends) that is so sweet and very nice towards me and others, immediately it makes my heart melt and feeling warm inside my soul. Nowadays, only few people that are genuinely nice and sweet that you can't really find them anywhere you go, they are rare species (or even worse headed to extinction!). I'm not trying to be judgemental towards others, but that's the reality that we have now in this truly unpredictable world. Certain people can be so dangerous and harmful making the world unsafe anymore, those robbers or burglars or mafias whatever they call them are everywhere eyeing for their targets. As part of the society, I feel alarmed to these kind of situations where many unfortunate events happen these days to anyone that is definitely the innocent people; people being murdered after being robbed or worse being raped or being bullied etc. Insults, hatred, disgusting behaviour, annoyance, and any bad habits alike will only destruct oneself and others.

Alright, enough with some random rant, let's talk about more positive things shall we? As the title of the post suggest 'nice and sweet' so I would really love to share with all of you some experiences whenever I encounter those kind of people. For instance, today I met this one lady wearing a hijab that seems pretty and nice to me, she smiled and greeted me salaam when I passed by her eventhough I didn't know her and to the fact that she was in a hurry. Ok maybe that's just her normal way of greeting other muslims, fair enough. But still that is considered nice and sweet to me! Next, I have this one really nice and caring friend that she always ask me; how's my study and life goes and will offer some help whenever I meet her. Oh there's another one from Saudi, my partner during our Snowdonia trip, she always dress in her black abaya with her niqab on but I can tell how she will smile beautifully for me whenever we met; I really admire her courage and determination towards helping others. Ah yess, the ones from Kenya also nice and sweet as they came from developing country same as I do so we share the same common wavelengths. And I also have one friendly colleague that she will never let me feel aloof and she's quite talkative in a nice way. There are a few local people that are so nice and sweet, I believe they are still doing good somewhere but I only meet them once in a blue moon as we're not living or study together hence separated. And of course last but not least, I have all my friends, family and relatives that are nice and sweet! Wow I guess I'm surrounded by nice and sweet people then alhamdulillah! subhanallah! ^_^

I really want to be nice and sweet to others as well so that I would have more nice and sweet people around me since I do believe in 'what goes around comes around' even if it's not hundred percent true, still the outcome is almost true as kindness is like a boomerang, always returns. Just like when you befriend with others, the basic is - Don't wait for people to be friendly, show them how.

Please do be nice to me and others if you can't afford to be sweet. Sweet perhaps another degree of being so nice towards others. But not in the sense of letting somebody controlled over your life for being so nice. For example, if you can take care about others than that's nice but it'll be sweeter if you could offer some help or advice if needed. Thus, treat others nicely and make sure you have that sweet appearance and positive attitude: Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you - not because they are nice, but because you are. Be nice and sweet dear me! ^_^

It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice.

With yourself, I think you have to decide the kind of person that you really want to be,
and for me, it's just a nice and sweet girl. ^_^

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